live an authentic, purposeful, happy and meaningful life

For women feeling lonely and lost with life,

who are ready for change.

 

The Wander with Purpose Coaching Program

“Living an authentic, meaningful and happy life will open up endless opportunities and possibilities!
It will allow you to be in control of your own life again, how overcome loneliness and have a clear path on how to achieve your goals.
To be able to make decisions about things that really matter while coming from a place of calmness.
To be successful in life and in your business.”

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My coaching is based on my own life- and business experience combined with a professional background in the coaching & therapy industry but most important; it comes from a place of authenticity, love and passion.

Feeling lonely sucks

Can you relate? I have always been told that my dreams were too big, that I had to fit in with the rest, focus on security and that sacrificing is part of life. It made me feel I did not belong and left me feeling extremely lonely.

I have always questioned those main stream beliefs and have proven myself (and others) over the years that I have much more to offer to myself and the world around me when I live my life on my own terms. When I follow my own dreams and can be my authentic self.

But it is hard sometimes to find that confidence, to put up boundaries and stay connected to your purpose. It can make you feel like an outsider, lonely on your own journey, doubting your own beliefs and can eventually lead to giving up on your dreams. Maybe you can relate to this too.

For years I kept myself stuck because I did not belief I was worth it to pursue my dreams. For the outside world I lived a happy life. I had been a successful entrepreneur for years, in a long time relationship and even though I felt something was missing, I did not think I had the right to complain.

Till I had a big cancer scare and I realised life is too short to be put on hold.
I took the leap and changed my life. 

 

Are you tired of feeling lonely and not belonging?

Lost with life

Sometimes we don’t even know why we feel lonely but we just do. It makes you feel ashamed because to the outside world you life a happy life. You have a social network around you, have a great job, you have a loving partner/family. 

 But despite having no reason to feel stuck and depressed you feel you don’t belong. It is like no one understands you which makes it hard to talk to other people about how you really feel.

It can feel like your stuck in your mind, going around in circles with no option to break free.

Despite not doing anything, you feel tired and lack the motivation to do something. You dread waking up in the mornig because you don’t know how to make it through another day.

It is time for a new direction in life ~
It is time for change!

How would your life be different?

  • If you would have a strong sense of belonging? Of being part of something.
  • If you’d have clarity what it is that you want to do with your life, with your job or business, your relationship?
  • If you can stop running around trying to find the answer to stop you from feeling miserable and lonely?
  • When you get to go to bed at night feeling excited about what tomorrow will bring, knowing you have a purpose and a goal?
  • If you can make decisions and take inspired action coming from a place of authenticity, while staying true to yourself?
  • When that voice in your head stops telling you what you should and shouldn’t do?
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What can you expect from the
Wander with Purpose Program?

The Wander with Purpose Program will change your life!

When you get stuck it is hard to think beyond that state. You know that how you’re feeling now is not what you want but you’re not clear on what it is exactly that you do want. I know how you feel because I have been there too. I know from experience what it’s like to feel alone, lost and stuck in life but I also know what is on the other side.

Over the years I have helped women from all around the world to re-connect with their authentic self allowing them to kick loneliness in the butt and change their lives and I am here to help you too!

In this program you will get answers on questions as: “how overcome loneliness”, “what to do when feeling lost with life”, “how to feel less lonely” but also “how to find my passion in life”, “how to find direction in life” and many others.

And you will get the tools, guidance and support you need to change your life!

Why will the Wander with Purpose Program help you to get unstuck, create quietness in your head and reconnect with your authentic self?

1:1 sessions

One on one coaching sessions are THE way to get long lasting results. You won’t have to worry about others listening to you like in a group. This is all about you and getting the best possible result while being in a safe environment.

Personalised to your needs

We will create your own personal transformational coaching plan/roadmap which outlines what your goal is, what is stopping you from getting there and what you need so you can achieve this.

Online & Confidential

All my coaching programs are done online via Zoom.  This allows you to be in the comfort of your own home and save travel time.  It also allows me to wander the globe and still be there for you!

Support

If you get stuck you can always get in touch with me. I offer support and guidance while you’re going through your program. This way you’ll never feel alone.

Over the years I have helped women from all different backgrounds who felt unhappy, lonely, lost and who struggled with low self-confidence and low self-worth, to find their passion again, build their confidence, change their course and start living life from their authentic selves. (You can read some of their reviews on my website.)

My coaching is based on my own life- and business experience combined with a professional background in the coaching & therapy industry but most important; it comes from a place of authenticity, love and passion.

“I have worked with Sietske for approximately 8 years and highly recommend her as a caring, motivating and inspiring coach.  Her extensive business experience and passion for life, combined with her coaching training, empower her to be a unique force for good to powerfully effect change in the lives of the people around her.

If you are ready to be challenged, encouraged, and supported to live a life that truly satisfies and brings you authentic success and happiness I highly recommend you contact Sietske.”

Elizabeth Denniss

Executive Manager Communithy Services, Shire Greenbushes-Bridgetown

Living an authentic life with clear purpose and intention

are you charging what your worth, money mindset

 What makes my coaching different from many other coaching approaches out there is that I dive deep instead of staying on the surface. This will give you long lasting results instead of a quick fix.

You know you’re ready to start doing the thing you want most; “Living an authentic life with clear purpose and intention,” don’t you?

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If you are feeling lost with life and are serious and committed to change, this program is for you.

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If you are ready to kick loneliness in the butt, this program is for you.

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If you know what you want but don't know how to get there, this program is for you.

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If you want your own, personal coaching plan, this program is for you

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If you are willing to dive deep to get long lasting results, this program is for you

How does the coaching program work?

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1:1 online coaching sessions

One on one coaching sessions are a great way to get results. You won’t have to worry about others listening to you like in a group. This is all about you and getting the best possible result while being in a safe environment.

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Your own, personal coaching plan

We will create your own personal transformational coaching plan/roadmap which outlines what your goal is, what is stopping you from getting there and what you need so you can achieve this.

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Private Portal

You will get your own personal portal in my Wander with Purpose Academy from where you can access your own workbook and supporting materials. 

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Support

If you get stuck you can always get in touch with me. I offer support and guidance while you’re going through your program. This way you’ll never feel alone.

“Will online coaching give me the same results as face to face?”

This was the question Maria asked me when she first contacted me. And it is a good question.
Not so long ago you would meet your coach or therapist face to face in the same room.

Maria was worried online coaching wouldn’t be as effective as meeting face to face. But she lived on the other side of the planet so meeting in person was impossible. So I invited her to have for an online chat. After our chat Maria send me a message saying all her doubts had been taken away. The fact she did not have to travel and could stay at home where she felt safe actually allowed her to be more open.

Maria has been through an amazing transformation and the is the perfect example of how online coaching can change your life.

Feeling lonely and lost with life sucks.

 

Let’s change that!

It is time for a new direction in life ~
It is time for change!

Body & Mind

Together we will focus on what you want to achieve and on who you want to become.

I will guide you through the different stages of change and transformation which will open up new possibilities and will help you to make decisions coming from a place of authenticity.

Often we also store emotions in our bodies which can result in unwanted symptoms like anxiety, headaches, pains, etc. My program takes into account that mind & body work together and therefor we should address both. This is based on the work of Joe Dispenza. 

body and mind relationship

What opportunities will open up for you?

What opportunities will open up for you when you: 

Can stop putting others first and focus on yourself and your needs first.

Can create longterm changes instead of a quick fix?

Feel you belong. Will this help you to start making soul inspired desicions?

Have clarity and stillness in your mind. Will this help you to start making soul inspired desicions?

No longer have to rely on external validation, the need to hear others tell you what or how to do things, but instead, have the self-confidence to make your own soul inspired choices.

A few of the core modules of
the Wander with Purpose Program

A few of the core modules of the Wander with Purpose Program

Depending on your questions, your needs, your goals and your expectations I will put together a personalised coaching program for you. Besides the 1:1 online coaching sessions you will get access to your own portal within the Wander with Purpose Academy.

Some of the core modules are:

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1. Creating Inner safety

Responsibility is at the heart of healthy boundaries, your ability to choose your responses, and deciding what to let in and what to keep out. It’s at the core of feeling a sense of inner safety. 

Without this sense of ownership over your powers of thinking, feeling, taking actions and use of your words, change becomes incredibly challenging, if not impossible.

And that’s why the change process starts here.

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2. Aligning for certainty

Often we know and understand our dreams and goals on an intellectual level, but we aren’t living it.

We have lost the connection with our true self, our authentic self. That’s when we feel lost or stuck and it seems impossible to re-connect with our passion.

In this phase we focus on aligning our beliefs with our dreams and goals.

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3. Permission to receive

For a lot of people, giving is far easier than receiving. Both because of the societal rules and values around receiving (getting) as well as the fact that when we receive, we let go of control.

In order to receive, you need to relinquish control. And often that leaves us feeling vulnerable.

In this phase we focus on permission to receive which is a fundamental step needed to be able to re-connect with our authentic self.

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4. Start living your authentic life

This is where the magic happens. In this phase we will put everything together so that you are ready to start living life from a place of authenticity and passion.

You’ll be in control of your own life again and have a clear path on how to achieve your goals and live your dreams.

You’ll be ready to start living an authentic, meaningful and happy life with endless opportunities and possibilties.

“What if I spend the money and don’t get results?”

I’d like you to meet Emma who runs her own business. As a child she got bullied at school which resulted in her having a fear of showing herself. Hiding in the background felt safe, that’s where people couldn’t get to her. But..this is not a productive pattern if you want to grow your business.

In a few sessions we worked through those old fears and old beliefs so she no longer felt the need to hide. Those few sessions helped her to start showing herself and becoming the business owner she always wanted to be: confident and standing her ground.

From the moment she started showing herself in her business her sales went up.

Are you like Emma and ready to invest in yourself, to start showing yourself and become the person you’ve always wanted to be?

These women already took the leap. 
Are you ready too?

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Are you ready to start making soul inspired decisions?

The Wander with Purpose Program is so much more than just 1:1 coaching.

It focusses on LONG-TERM results, explores different areas of where you feel stuck,
get’s to the core and opens opportunities you weren’t even aware of.

The online portal will also give you access to resources, your outlined personal coaching plan,
meditations, video’s, support and so much more.

This program is life changing.

The facts

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One on One

1:1 online coaching sessions for personal attention so you will get the best possible results.

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Your own personalised coaching program

Everyone has different needs and that’s exactly why I’ll put together your own, personalised program. You can access this through your own portal in my online academy.

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Personal Portal

You will get your own personal portal in my Wander with Purpose Academy from where you can access your own workbook and supporting materials. 

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Length of the program

Depending on your personal pace most people take about 6 months to go through the program. Quick fixes only give short time results. My program allows the time needed to implement new behaviours so they become new patterns resulting in long term changes and long term results. 

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Support

If you get stuck you can always get in touch with me. I offer support and guidance while you’re going through your program. This way you’ll never feel alone.

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“I run a small business and needed some assistance to help me reach my goals, realise my full potential and learn how to break down barriers I had given myself long ago. Sietske was able to guide me through a series of exercises that have allowed me to successfully move forward. A positive change in mindset, offering different perspectives and out of the box thinking are things you can expect while undertaking coaching with Sietske.

Sietske has an inspiring story and a professional background to be admired, I would have no hesitation in recommending her services for anyone looking to grow personally and professionally.”

Jennifer Benson

Owner & Founder, The Kindness Project

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FREE BONUS: KICKSTART Program $477

You will also get my online course “Kickstart to start Wandering with Purpose”. This short, online course will give you more inside in who you are, who you want to be and what you want to achieve. Valued $477

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FREE BONUS: VALUES COURSE $97

You will also get my online course on Values. When you know what your values are it is easier to start living a more authentic life. Valued $97

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FREE BONUS: HARDCOVER JOURNAL $35

You will also get a copy of my hardcover Wander with Purpose Journal. Great for daily use with inspiring prompts and quotes. Valued $35

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FREE BONUS: MEDITATIONS $39

You will get access to my meditations library. These are great for you to listen to when you need a moment to relax, need more clarity or more insights. You can download them on your phone so you can access them wherever you go. Valued $39

Your Investment in this life changing program

TOTAL VALUE OF THIS PROGRAM = $6495

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I am very picky who I work with, and I believed in Sietske enough to ask her to coach me when I was stuck in my business. It took her very little time to get to the core and helped me make a huge shift that I hadn’t been able to do on my own.

I think in the field that we are in, where it’s often about success on a flashy and superficial level, and often without a true respect for the trade, Sietske is a rare gem. Someone who gives meaning to the word authenticity. And who you can easily trust with your hopes and dreams.

I’d work with her again in a heartbeat.

Femke Mortimore BSc

Founder, The Quantum Leap Coach Academy

I will help you to get comfortable outside your comfort zone.
Let’s do this!

Why not go to someone who offers cheaper, single sessions?

Trust me, I’ve done that too and so have many of my clients. And maybe you can relate to the following as well.
You sign up for something, enrol in a course, start with a coaching program and you start with good faith and good intentions but after a few sessions life gets in the way again, other things become a priority and you fall back into old habits of putting other things/people first. And the person you are working with is not pulling you up on this. I have done this with Spanish lessons. I invested money in a course, took a few lessons but because it got too hard I started making excuses I did not have time to study and I ended up quitting. I told the teacher I was too busy and he/she never confronted me with this “escaping” behaviour but instead just let me go. I invested money in the lessons but because I never fully committed my Spanish is still limited to “si” and “por favor”. If the teacher had confronted me and asked if I’d noticed how I made excuses NOT to finish and had helped me change this, I am sure I would have been able to have a basic Spanish conversation by now.

That’s one scenario. The other scenario is is one most of us will relate to as well and it’s when after a few sessions you think you know what to do and because you want to save yourself some money you stop. For example you want to learn how to use weights so you can get fit. You join the gym, you learn how to use the equipment and are ready to start using your home-gym. Sure enough you start off feeling confident and are committed putting the learned strategies to work but after a few weeks/months you start to notice that you’re slowly losing your commitment and are falling back into those old, unwanted patterns and behaviours. Which home-gym? This leads to beating yourself up and feeling like a failure because you weren’t able to succeed. How would it have been different if yo’d still been seeing your personal trainer once a week or once every fortnight?

Third scenario, someone promises you quick results. And we LOVE quick results, don’t we. Because we are already so busy so let’s get this done quickly so we can do other things. You spot this fabulous program which promises you the world. You might even pay good bucks for this program. The coach dives straight into what you want to achieve and what is stopping you from achieving this. He/she gives you some tools, maybe takes you through an (NLP) process and you’ve “been fixed”. Woohoo. And for a while you will feel great and your life has changed, till, one day you get triggered and you have a fall back. This is because when you only focus on changes on a surfice level you’ll never get to the core! Those core beliefs and core patterns have been ruling your life for a long time. Often since childhood. And as long as they are still there, they will get triggered!! There are NO quick fixes!!! It takes time to re-program your brain and re-install different behaviours and ways of thinking.

For me, there is no pride in my work when I can’t support someone through the whole process. To facilitate soul inspired, long lasting changes on core level.

I only want to work with people who are commited to do that. People who are not after a quick fix because so many other things have priority and they have limited time. YOU should be the priority!!

That’s why I only work with a complete program. Because this way I am there to catch you when you fall, help you get back on your feet and instead of you giving up, I’ll confront you, hold your hand and help you get there. To create those deep, long lasting changes that you want.

I want to do this but now is not the right time

Sure, life get’s busy and we have to make decisions about what we want to do and when. Prioritising what is most important.

But seriously, who is more important than you, and when will it be the right time?

Maybe this is a pattern you’re running in your life that is not very helpful. Always prioritising other things / people and putting yourself last. Do you recognise this?

  • Are you waiting for someone’s or your own permission to take control of your own life?
  • How much longer are you going to sabotage your own dreams?
  • What can be more important than you?!
  • What needs to happen first before you are ready to take the leap?

I am sure that you can think of something that you’ve done, a decision you’ve made about something, from what you thought it wouldn’t be the right moment to do so but it ended up being very useful for you.

There is never going to be the right time to start investing time in yourself. No one is going to knock on your door and tell you that today is the day.

Only you can make this happen!

It is time for you to start shining, to become the person you’ve always wanted to be.

I want to do this but I don't have the money

Let’s be honest, everything in life costs money and we can only spend it once. What is more important than spending your money on something that serves you and is meaningful for you?

It is easier to spend money on something for someone else than it is to spend or invest it in yourself.

Or maybe you find it difficult to part with money.

Do you recognise that you’re running one or more of these patterns in your life?  Always prioritising other things / people and putting yourself last. Is this helping you or making your life a party?

  • Are you waiting for someone’s or your own permission to take control of your own life?
  • How much longer are you going to sabotage your own dreams?
  • What can be more important than you?!
  • What needs to happen first before you are ready to take the leap?

I am sure that you can think of something that you’ve bought or something that you have invested in for yourself which turned out the be very beneficial and meaningful for you. Something that you had your doubts about but it ended up giving you great results or enriched your life.

There is never going to be the right time to start investing in yourself. No one is going to knock on your door and tell you that today is the day.

How is your life going to be different once those limiting beliefs, fears and doubts are no longer putting your dreams on hold?

There is a reason so many succesfull and happy people say that “the best investment you’ll ever make is the investment in yourself.”

Are you ready to start investing in yourself too?

Take the leap!
What do you have to lose?

Take the leap

Do you also have a voice in your head telling you what you should and shouldn’t do? And despite you knowing you’re ready to take the leap, this voice gives you a hundred reasons why you shouldn’t?

Relax, this means you’re a real person! This voice is there to keep you safe. It doesn’t want you to try something new, to step out of your comfortzone and take the leap because stepping into the unknown is scary even though you know it is going to be the best thing you can do for yourself.

That’s why this voice is coming up with all these reasons (read “excuses”) not to.

I don't really know you

Let’s change that. I wouldn’t want to work with someone I don’t know either. Coaching is very personal and to be able to get the best result it’s important you feel safe so you can show up vulnerable.

I hear you, I am exactly the same when it somes to me working with other professionals.

Have a look at my website and especially my About page.

Here you’ll read a lot about me and it might answer some of your questions or will take some of your concerns away.

Feel free to get in touch so we can schedule a free chat and you can ask me anything you want (within reason 😉 ).

If you feel you are not ready yet for a 1:1 program check out my Kickstart to Start Wandering with Purpose Program. This is fully online and a great way for you to start.

 

With so many programs out there the days I don't know how to chose

I hear you. Everyone promises golden mountains these days and everyone’s program or training is better than someone else’s, right?

I cannot decide for you what fits best for you but I can tell you that whatever you decide to invest in, should be inline with your values.

If you are not sure about what your values are you are definitely on the right page, beause you will get free access to my value course when you enrol in my program.

Values help you to live an authentic life, they are all about what is really important to you.

So if you are looking for a professional to help you get your life back on track what is important to you? 

Does that person need to have qualifications? Experience? Or maybe for you it is more important there are 100’s of reviews on the page. Or maybe your friend had great experiences with someone.

Maybe you want more than just 1:1 sessions but you want support in between sessions as well. Or an online platform where you can review what you’ve worked on during your sessions.

When you decide who you want to work with, ask yourself the question “what is important to me about this person?”

NOTHING WILL CHANGE IF YOU DON’T CHANGE ANYTHING.
AND WHEN NOTHING CHANGES, NOTHING WILL CHANGE.

It is up to you now to take that first step now and I will be there to support you from there on.

“For years I struggled finding the confidence to put myself out there, to find my own voice and share my story with the rest of the world.

I got bullied as a child and even after this stopped I struggled with being part of a group. Always trying to make myself invisible. Because being invisible was a safe place for me. I wasn’t even aware of all this.

Till, during my coaching training, I had to stand and coach in front of the group. I broke down and was about to quit. I managed to get myself together and asked the trainer for help. That was the first step in a process that changed my life.

Coaching has changed my life and it can also change yours. Don’t wait any longer but take that first step today. I am here to help you too!”

Sietske

live your best life with online coaching women Perth

THERE IS NEVER GOING TO BE A BETTER MOMENT TO START CHANGING THAN RIGHT NOW!

But what if……

I fall back in old habits?

You might be worried to fall back in old habits or patterns after finishing the program. Understandable and very realistic.

That’s why I offer the Keep Wandering Program.  This is a great way to keep the magic going.

I can't do this?

It is human to feel nervous and maybe even a bit scary when you start working on yourself. It is very normal and you are definitely not the only one.

A thought that might keep popping up in your head is that you can’t do this or don’t know how. This is that voice that is trying to keep you safe.

It is good to be aware and acknowledge that you have these feelings and thoughts and that it is okay.

Don’t let them be a reason to stop you. I am used to working with people who struggle with low sefl confidence and I’ve got you!

I will make sure you will start feeling comfortable
outside of your comfort zone!

Frequently Asked Questions

I want to do this but I don't have the time

Life is so busy these days. We run around like crazy, trying to get as many things as possible in our days and always complain we don’t have enough time.

How would life be different is you were able to use your time more wisely?

That you could prioritse you own needs first and by doing so are able to serve others better as well?

If you never have (or make) time for yourself or the things that are important to you, we definitely have to talk because this is not a healthy pattern.

How would being able to set up healthy boundaries for yourself change your life?

 

Sure, life get’s busy and we have to make decisions about what we want to do and when. Prioritising what is most important.

But seriously, who is more important than you, and when will it be the right time?

Maybe this is a pattern you’re running in your life that is not very helpful. Always prioritising other things / people and putting yourself last. Do you recognise this?

  • Are you waiting for someone’s or your own permission to take control of your own life?
  • How much longer are you going to sabotage your own dreams?
  • What can be more important than you?!
  • What needs to happen first before you are ready to take the leap?

I am sure that you can think of something that you’ve done, a decision you’ve made about something, from what you thought it wouldn’t be the right moment to do so but it ended up being very useful for you.

What sets me apart as a coach

With so many coaches and other professionals out there it can get tricky to find the right person to help you.

Everyone is unique. So are you and so is your story. 

You deserve another unique person to help you. Someone who understands where you’re coming from, what you’ve been through, what your triggers are, your struggles, your fears, your pain, your tears.

But also someone who believes in you, someone who knows from own experience that it is possible to break free from this pain and sorrow. And not just because that’s what they’ve been taught but more important, because they have been where you are now and they know from their own experiences that might not be easy, that hard work and committment is involved but that there is light at the other side. Light of a better life. A happy life, a life full opportunities.

That person is me. I’ve have lived your story, I have felt your struggles and your pain

 

Combining my own life- and business experiences with a professional background in coaching will help you to get to the core from where we can create life changing changes. 

I don’t believe in quick fixes, in surface solutions, in treating symptoms. They only work short term.

I believe in 1:1 sessions to get the best results. There’s a place for group coaching as well, but to get the transformational results you want 1:1 session are the way to go.

 

What if I have an unsteady internet connection?

I do work quite a bit with clients who live outside the metro areas and more rural locations. From time to time internet connections can be unsteady.

Turning off your video can help.

When the connection gets too unsteady or keeps cutting out because of for example the weather and it effects the outcome of the session we will re-schedule. 

This only happens on very rare occasions though.

How about coach - client confidentiality

Confidentiality is your right as a client.

As an ICF accredited coach I am bound by their Code of Ethics which states:

“Due to the nature of the coaching relationship and as instructed by the ICF Code of Ethics, all information acquired by the coach, be it through assessments, interviews or coaching conversations, will be kept strictly confidential. This information belongs to the client.”

 

Will online sessions give me the same results as in persons?

For a long time it was “standard” that during a session you would sit across from each other in the same room.

Personally I found this sometimes quite intimidating whenever I had sessions with a coach or therapist myself. 

I realised that many of my clients feel the same way. Being able to offer online sessions means you can stay in the safety and comfort of your own home. With your own cup of coffee or tea besides you, in your favourite chair or on your comfi couch.

You don’t even have to get dressed up if you don’t feel like it.

It’s totally normal to be a bit nervous. My experience with clients is that most are less nervous and feel more open to share their stories when they feel safe and comfortable themselves.

This all leads to better results.

As an added bonus you don’t have to spend time on travelling.

I do offer limited sessions in person depending on location and where I am. Get in touch to discuss your needs.